Pronouns

Like nouns, pronouns can refer to people, things, concepts, and places. In Japanese, the use of pronouns, especially when referring to oneself and speaking in the first person, vary between gender, formality, dialect and region.

Pronouns to Refer to Yourself

The way you refer to yourself in Japanese depends on your gender. It can also depend on how honorific you want your speech to be.

Pronoun Meaning Gender Polite Honorific
Watashi
私/わたし
I / Me Neutral, female Watakushi
私/わたくし
Ware
Atashi
あたし
I / Me Female Atakushi
あたくし
Atakushi
あたくし
Uchi
うち
I / Me Neutral
(more commonly used by females)
Boku
I / Me Male
Ore
I / Me Male
Jibun
自分
Myself Neutral
Watashitachi
私たち
We / Us Neutral Ware ware
我々
Ware ware
我々
Bokura
僕ら
We / Us Male
Orera
俺ら
We / Us Male

Pronouns to Refer to Others

The pronouns used to refer to other people don’t depend on the speaker’s gender or the subject’s.

Pronoun Meaning Level of Formality
Anata
あなた
You Polite
Kimi
君/きみ
You Casual
Anta
あんた
You Very casual
Omae
お前/おまえ
You Very casual, can be rude
Anatatachi
あなた達/あなたたち
You (plural) Polite
Kimitachi/Kimira
君たち/君ら
You (plural) Casual
Antatachi/Antara
あんた達/あんたら
You (plural) Very casual
Omaetachi/Omaera
お前たち/お前ら
You (plural) Very casual, can be rude
Kare
He, him Polite
Kanojo
彼女
She, her Polite
Ano kata
あの方
That person, they (singular) Very polite
Ano hito
あの人
That person, they (singular) Casual, can be polite depending on tone
Aitsu
あいつ/アイツ
That person, they (singular) Very casual, can be rude
Karetachi/Karera
彼たち/彼ら
They (male) Karetachi is polite; karera is casual
Kanojotachi/kanojora
彼女たち/彼女ら
They (female) Kanojotachi is polite; kanojora is casual

Impersonal (Demonstrative) Pronouns

Impersonal pronouns usually are independent from the level of formality. These pronouns also don’t change depending on gender.

Pronoun Meaning
Kore
これ
This, it
Sore
それ
That, it
Are
あれ
That (refers to something that is distanced from the speaker), it
Koko
ここ
Here
Soko
そこ
There
Asoko
あそこ
Over there

When to Use Pronouns (Statistically)

Japanese first-person pronouns by speakers and situations according to Yuko Saegusa, Concerning the First Personal Pronoun of Native Japanese Speakers (2009)

Female Speaker:

Situation 1 2 3
To friends uchi 39% atashi 30% watashi 22%
In the family atashi 28% First name 27% uchi 18%
In a class watashi 89% atashi 7% jibun 3%
To an unknown visitor watashi 81% atashi 10% jibun 6%
To the class teacher watashi 77% atashi 17% jibun 7%

Male Speaker:

Situation 1 2 3
To friends ore 87% uchi 4% watashi, jibun 2% each
In the family ore 88% boku, jibun 5% each
In a class watashi 48% jibun 28% boku 22%
To an unknown visitor boku 36% jibun 29% watashi 22%
To the class teacher jibun 38% boku 29% watashi 22%